The way people judge things when it has to do with their actions made it clear that they are complicating the matters & implicating themselves.
How can a bad egg smell nice just because it’s yours????
How can a spilt milk be recovered just because you spilt it???
How can a sour soup taste so nice just because you cooked it???
BAD IS BAD, GOOD IS GOOD, SOUR IS SOUR, SPILT IS SPILT
STOP PAINTING IT & STOP IMPLICATING YOURSELF.